I am so sorry for your and your dear children's loss. I'm sorry your W saw this as the only way out. Know it had very little to do with you. Know that your wife's emotional pain was more about how she felt about her place in the world, her view of herself, and the inability to love herself and see a future without that great pain clouding her mind. She just wanted her pain to stop at the point that she chose to act.
There was nothing you could have done to change her mind. Nothing. Db'ing would not have accelerated it or slowed it. You are not responsible for the choices others make. Do not own this, it is not yours to own.
You'll be in my prayers tonight Nine. I wish you peace of mind in this, all the support and help you need, and the knowledge that you did what was in your power to do.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
