Hey TG007... I so appreciate your patience. I can't imagine waiting so long for my W to "change her mind".

Somewhere along my road, I learned and appreciated what it means when the WAS says, "I don't feel married..."

That "feeling" seems to allow them to feel they have carte blanche around acting single and doing things that single people do...

You will and should do what you feel you need to do, for YOU. Of course, you know that.

If you cannot "act as if" you are single... then you are stuck in an open M and only you know if you can handle that.

I wish you the best on your choices and future.