I'm feeling conflicted about making a list of my issues with H (he requested it). If we are supposed to concentrate on our own issues...
He told me the night he dropped the last bomb (6 days ago) that he didn't like or respect me. I asked why...and he replied that I was beautiful, smart, a good mother, kept myself and the house looking nice, and that he admired how successful I've been in my career in such a short period of time. Then what is it that he doesn't like or respect about me? He said he wasn't exactly sure.
His complaints seem to be - not enough sex, not enough in common (aside from our kids), not compatible, he likes to socialize and drink more than I do. He thinks that I don't like or respect him.
This is why I'm feeling conflicted about this list. Does it really matter at this point?
Believe none of what they say and half of what they do?
