actually for about a second, I thought of going back to the OM and keep the both of them until someone, like ex h shows me that they want me. But of course I didn't. I feel bad that her betrayal is creepy in on you, I wonder if my ex will feel that too and maybe all we can be are friends. As you know its hard to sit and wait. I hope your head doesn't get too clouded with the new lady friend in your life and your ex. Are you still going to be doing things for her?? whats on tap for New Years???