Alb, although he did not wake up because of YOU, when he did wake up, your actions helped make him come back to you. had you blamed him, guilted him, used D against you he might not have come back.
Of course we all can't help but compare our sitches, and I have done all the above and have seen how it can push away the WAS all the more. Although my H has never left, I can see that the emotional distance between us has grown so much more after I have done all those.
Thank you so much for sharing, keep on doing so. You are an inspiration to many!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go