Yes, LS I meant legal separation. Every L I spoke with said the same. Why would you go to the effort to LS when you will D later they said. I also asked if I could file something for the support rather than filing for D. She said no. Hmmm. Maybe I will have to ask again. He has made no effort to see kids and has said nothing about R. I did take the kids on an adventure and he did find out. H was concerned who I went with and what we did. I said we had fun and the kids are good!