Thank you both for taking the time to answer! I do appreciate it. That list IS really bad and that is reality. I need to print that off. I was doing well with detachment until this money stuff. But, I understand it shouldn't have upset me so much then when I talked to hm if I had detached. He was a good dad. Very involved. Now its been months with NC.. He has had opportunities too. Yes, he is an alien. I just didn't want to file. I thought if this is what he truly wants then he can do it. I thought by not filing I was showing him again I didn't want to be D. Just my reasoning. I realize now I have not choice but to see lawyer.
