Epilogue..................

[Truegritter]

When is it good for 2Step to let down his boundary? I am not sure I follow?

I mean that the interactions with your W either make you uncomfortable (let her disturb your life) or they don't.

If they do then you either live your life that way until you realize you don't want that anymore (it doesn't serve your happiness) or you will continue to live with the pain you allow her to bring to your life.

Boundaries are there to help you live a happier life.

If she shows you some evidence that gives you some assurance that she might be willing to live life differently than what has been. A better life. A committed life.

Then I mean- your boundaries are up to you to let them down (engage her) or to keep them up.

When is it helpful to you on your journey to watch your W and wonder why? Wonder why what?

Why she is doing, thinking, or not doing, thinking ANYTHING.

I know you are journaling here when you write and I think it is good until it is time not to anymore...

I still see too much of "my X did this and that" 2.

If you came here and wrote 3 pages on how happy your life is and what you choose to put in it...

Well how much different would you feel?