Thought I would update. This is actually for me and I apologize i can't link my previous threads. If somebody could do that it would be great. My STBXW moved out 9 months ago. I am in the process of selling the house, one because its a lot of work and two for financial reasons. Our two sons will live with me 100% and our daughter approx 60-70%.
My STBXW has not relented in her quest for freedom, independence etc. She was always a stubborn, headstrong, loving, giving,woman wrapped up in one package. But the quest for independence away from all she once knew has really come to the surface in this WAW/MLC journey.
Having been through an MLC myself I have learned quite a few things. Because I do love her her I have let her live this journey herself. Although I get frustrated sometimes due to her actions I can step back and realize there is nothing I can do or say to change the dynamics of the situation.
It was hard yesterday to watch pieces of your history picked apart and packed up and taken away. But I did it so I could feel it(it did hurt) and to accept this is my situation as it stands this moment.
My STBXW is pushing for divorce. I won't stand in the way of the divorce but will not do the work to make this happen. It is not my choice to break up our family.
I'll give my stats below in case it can't be linked.
M-45 STBXW-44 M-22 T-28 S-20, S-17, D-13 Moved out 1/1/11 Start of change - 6/2009
