Anita, I knowwhatyou mean. You want affection from your ex and if he can't then you want it from somewhere else. But your ex is giving you a chance. Don't blow it. My ex met OM after we D, or so she says. We would get close then I would press for more. Now I don't press and things seem to be moving forward. Taking one day at a time. Just leave OM be. Remember you have to prove yourself to him.