The night before I left for AL she called we spoke for a little she told me something about D that she had mentioned and felt she wanted to share with me. Really it was nothing of note and because she wanted to know what I wanted to say to her that I did not say the day we spoke.
I am not ready for that convo, don't know that I ever will be at this point.
Conversation went ok and she joked a little bit
Then the complaining started about my mom and although she was not angry or mean about it she made sure she expressed her feelings
I listened for a bit
X: I know people tell D that I did not love her and that was wrong.
M: Well after the fact it is my job to protect D and you did break off all contact with her
X: Ok well I am not going to argue with you so have a safe trip and enjoy yourself. Goodnight
M: NIght
Went to bed with no worries
Next day I felt kind of bad about the cheap shot I took so I called her up, I knew she would not pick up since it was around 6AM so I left her a message
M: Just wanted to say I did not intent to taking a cheap shot at you lastnight. That issue with D was addressed when it happened and it should not have. I don't think at this point it really makes much difference but I did want you to know that it was addressed and it was wrong. That is pretty much it. Have a good day
Later that day I get the following text from her
X: I got your msg. Thank you. Although I wasn't asking for ur agreement or for u to do anything..Was simply stating what I thought was right n what I thought was wrong. I have never had any control over u n what u say or anybody else for that matter. Was only stating my opinion. It's natural for u n ur family to feel the way u do..That I am wrong n bad n have only even done harm to D. i knw the truth n that's all that matters...I have no control over u or ur opinions n cannot worry about it anymore. I'm very happy I got to see D, it is unfortunate for her the way things turned out. but i didn't cause it all by myself I knw this. Deep down u do too. I did the right thing. Have a good trip n talk to u again.
