Epilogue..................

[2stepboogie]

Like some suspense novel huh? yeah just not an interesting read.

Except it's your life.

You can't just put the book down and leave the characters on the page right?

I am just going to venture it took a good while to write that synopsis up there and what does it do for you? For me? Just keeps me organized really. I have always documeted these convo's. At first it was to hopefully share them with my X but after it became clear the direction we were heading it was mainly to journal. Also I know some follow my thread that do not post and if in some small way I can help someone then I guess it is worth it to meBoundaries are for you. To protect you. And they are always under YOUR control.

You decide when to loosen them.

When is it good for 2Step to let down his boundary? I am not sure I follow?

When is it helpful to you on your journey to watch your W and wonder why? Wonder why what?

I didn.t read your whole thing either but is there anything up there that can definitively answer these questions for you? I don't know gritter. At this point I don't think so at least nothing I recognize.

What do you need to see from her really to come out of your detachment, that you have worked so hard to get, and allow yourself to get involved again? I need a lot more than some convo's from her. Actions would go a long way.

I am waiting for this.

Hope all is well 2.

Things are moving along and I have done a pretty good job of keeping myself busy.

My thoughts?

I had a lot more when I said that

I think she is experiencing guilt and pain. I think the Tulsa experiment did not go as planned.

I think OM dumped her because she had too much emotional baggage.

He is a college party guy living the single life and enjoying it.

I think the partying or the going out became something she did not like and got tired of pretty quickly

I think she became lonely and reached out to me.

just some small thoughts

Everyone needs someone to talk to and for most of us, this board is all we've got. Type. Type as much as you need to.

Thank you hope and it is so nice to see you again. I will make sure I quote this message for AK, freaking whiner

I also agree she is not done. She may not realize it herself though. From one grunt to another, just be yourself and check 6.

I believe I will hear from her again but I treat every conversation as my last. I am fine either way at this point. I still do miss her and I have my moments of complete loneliness but I get through them much more quickly now. Sure is nice to see another grunt around here, kind of, seems to be a few of us lurking about

Next time you are in Alabama, let me know...we can go get some lunch (if you are near Huntsville)Brian

Brian will do buddy. Had a pretty decent time up around Fort McClellon (Don't even know how to spell it). Even if I am not near Huntsville I will find my way to you for lunch

done

((( )))

Thank you 25 it is nice to see you back