My H hasn't wanted to take anything from the house. I gave him some towels (with his name embroidered on them), and he took one of our tv's (we had 3), and his tools, clothes and toiletries. He was supposed to take the lounge from the rumpus room - but he bought one (as did I to replace the one he was taking and now I'm stuck with two lounges), he is also supposed to take the PS3, some speakers and an amp from the lounge. And he took our whisky set - was a wedding present. Everything else he doesn't want. My daughter even said yesterday dad when are you taking your wine - to which he said oh I don't know one day - and then I said um excuse me it's not all dad's. I packed up all his dvd's and such and also gave him a dinner set.
I feel like telling him to come and get his stuff - I'm not his storage - but he's paying half the mortgage - so in a way he's entitled to leave his stuff here. I guess I think in the back of my mind that while he's not in a hurry to get all his stuff he maybe having doubts about whether he's done the right thing.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11