I hear you cam, and I know exactly what it sounds like... it ran through my mind a LOT in the beginning of my sitch...

ouch on the financials... do what you can to protect yourself and what ends up going (if it ends up final), you'll have to chalk up to education expense...

Get yourself out and about with friends who can remind you of how the reality is, you ARE a great guy and deep down, are a complete opposite of your W's words...

Get a life and get an ego boost...