On her moving... this will be an "in the moment" thing.
If you think you can handle it, be there. If you think you can't, don't be there.
It's better to come from a place of pro-action than re-action...
Well - I don't trust her (or her friends) to be here without me here.
I'd like to believe that I can somehow prepare myself for the experience proactively - visualization, affirmation, preloaded decision making, etc.. whatever it takes for me to be who I want to be in that circumstance.
I'm just not sure who that person would be. Not a wreck, I hope.
M: 32 W: 29 T: 9 Years M: 4 Years I hit rock bottom: 2/11 PA admitted: 4/11 WAW: 5/11 D filed: 6/11 now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.