Thanks Kaffe.

I do probably think it's time to give up now. I probably stuffed up all the LRT tactics I was trying to apply. I feel it can't work with someone who is so adamant that she can never go back and she is doing the right thing for her and us. Plus i only have limited time - she is moving back to America for good at Christmas time, so we will most likely never see each other again. My sitch really [censored], and she can't see me and us for the great things we had: the fun, love, friendship and common interests. All that is blocked and she says she is now a stronger person and her 'wall' won't come down.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011