Oh 9... I'm so, so sorry my friend. I'm thoughts are with you this afternoon. I can't express how deeply I feel for you and the pain that I know you must be going through.

What 2Step said is all so very true. This is not on you. Your W had some very deep emotional issues... you know that.

It was never your job to find happiness for your W. People must find their own happiness... all of us. Our S's cannot provide that for us. Your W is no different. It was not your job to find peace or happiness for her life.

No guilt over this man. You did EVERYTHING that you could to save your M and the R that you had with your W. We know that you did this bc you loved her and your family.

You did more than 99.9% of the population would ever have done. Remember that.

We are proud of you...

BITS
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce