Loving, Listening, and Letting Go..

[aeolianchaos]

Sorry, but a useless question. All of this. Doesn't exist NOW. Focus on what IS.

You don't think its useful for me to ask myself if I am really willing to follow through on what I said?

It's a lot more than not "want." You can't.
But you can get back to loving yourself. It is a lot more attractive than someone who doesn't.
Then, who knows?

I know I can't make her love me. But I don't want to pressure her to love me. I guess I mean I don't want to 'try' to 'make' her love me.

Accept that she said it. Nothing more.

I guess its hard for me to think 'oh she said that' and not look at it as 'oh she is saying what she means'

I appreciate the insights.