Most of my anger isn't about the past per se, but more about how the present is like the past. The half truths or secrecy and disrespect, but I think of him like I do my old friends whom I didn't get along with well.
Pick-up was weird yesterday. He sat down to wait on S which he hasn't done in a couple months. It didn't bother me, but then he starts telling me how he might get rift because numbers at his school are down and he has least seniority. Normally I would reassure him and tell him it will all be ok because he is a good teacher, etc but this time I listened and said that is a bad situation and due to new state legislation, but didn't advice or give the reassurance.
I was going to let XH have pictures after my family chose, but S wanted him to get some right away so I let XH pick out what he wanted, one of everything, which included the picture of just S and I. It was strange. I didn't get many of those so I asked XH to put them back because I only got some for my family. He said ok, but it was weird. Why would he want a pic of S and I?
So it was strange. Not bad but strange.
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