I am so lost... someone PLEASE help me! 4

[Sad_but_happy]

J1,
Just keep one thing in mind. There is only one path that matters here...

The path to YOUR and your children's happiness.


And Sandi2 is right, she most likely WILL NOT be ready to come back to you.

And if she is still in an A, you need to make her feel as though her options are few. Including the very real possibility that YOU will not wait for HER.

She needs to feel the walls closing in on her. She needs to really think.

And you need to genuinely GAL, and move on after your conversation. And NOT discuss it again.


You're kinda like me J1. You need closure fast. I wasn't willing to wait more than a month. You appear to be the same.


If you do discuss tomorrow, stay calm, cool and collected. Show little emotion if possible. Your confidence will probably make her panic.

Maybe not today... But eventually...

Good luck!