Yowzers..so many powerful and insightful responses. I really appreciate that people are reading my thread and giving me feedback to help me course-correct as best I can.

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Once you know your motivator, you know what to set your goals for...


KD - you have been on a roll lately with these kinds of statements. I have been trying to work this out - it isn't entirely clear to me what my motivator is. Or maybe it is clear and I just fail to recognize it as such.

To be loved? To be secure? To fight evildoers? To have a sense of self that is more rooted in myself than what I think others want me to be? To not make mistakes?


M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.