I see your point. Her message is clear. The thing is, her dreams about her idealic life without me are not rooted in reality. She has no clue of the hardship we all will face as a result of HER decision. She needs to see that now. The bloom has to come off the rosebush.
Johnnie, listen to me. She is a WAW who may or may not be in an A.....but either way.....she's still a WW and is not going to hear your sermon with her heart. You are still doing the same thing you did when you first arrived.....you believe if you can just talk to her.....if you can just say the right thing....then it will bring her out of the fog.
The ONLY THING that will get a WW's attention is when she sufferes some type of loss due to her WAW decisions. So far, she hasn't lost squat!!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
