Had a great evening last night - went out with several friends for happy hour and nibbles, then we headed over to see the new movie "The Change-Up". Totally mind-candy, but I enjoyed it.

Came home and chatted with a friend online for a bit and then headed to bed - was asleep within 15 minutes, which was nice. Slept until 8:30 when my alarm went off. Why did I have my alarm set? I have no idea.

S7 is with H today - stayed the night last night and will be with him until after dinner tonight. H called to say S7 asked to come home earlier, and what were my thoughts?

I asked H what he had planned for S7 today, and he told me, so I talked with S7 on the phone about those things, and I think S7 is going to stay and have his day with H.

Not that I don't want S7 to come home, but I think it's important that he start to get used to how things currently are, and I think it's important that he be able to soothe himself with a phone call to me.

He was apparently fine last night, too.

I told H to just call me on my cell if S7 gets really insistent about coming home, and also asked him to text me with a couple times to let me know how he's doing.

I didn't like to ask him to text me, but I preferred it to having to text him and ask - felt more like I was putting the responsibility on him to keep me updated.


H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11