Hi everybody, a few updates.

Wednesday my wife texted me to tell me that she hurt her finger. I was very supportive and asked if she needed any help.

Friday I had to go to the house to pick up a lot of my stuff, while my wife was at work. In the middle of the morning she texts me apologising for the house being a mess and saying that her finger is actually broken. Half hour later she sends me a text just with kisses (she didn't close the other text with kisses). I answer back saying that I'm upset because she's in pain and offering my help again. She answer saying that the pain isn't that bad and thanking for the help offer.

At night, she texts me again saying that she's healing quickly and hoping that I'm okay. I answered saying that she always healed good and wished her a good night sleep. I make a remark to something personal to us.

This morning she texted me saying that she feels like wanting to move the finger but that she won't. She also mentions the personal thing I mentioned. I reply with a smile and kisses. I then send her a joke to cheer her up, and she replies with a big smile, saying that I made her smile.

So, it seems that we now finally have a personal communication going on. We stopped talking about practical things and my wife is opening about her personal things. I've been GAL'ing a lot in the last couple of weeks, I'm involved in charity challenges, personal projects, etc., and I'm not secret about them (I share it on Facebook because in some of those projects I need my friend's support).

I'm being cautious and I'm not rushing. First, I need to protect myself because I don't know what are my wife's intentions yet. But I'm completely receptive to her communication attempts, and a couple of times I was a bit more personal in the conversation and my wife didn't seem to feel uncomfortable.

How should I proceed from now on? Do you guys have any good advices from your personal experience? My objectives here are two: first, protect myself from false hopes and from falling down the hole again; second, safe my marriage.

Thank you!


Me: 36
Wife: 33
Together: 09/2007
Married: 03/2010
I love you but...: 06/2011
Separated: 06/2011
Rebuilding: 11/2011