Originally Posted By: sandi2
Of course it matters to you if she continues her A, but my point is that whether she is or not.......her mind is made up to leave. If no affair, then what will you tell her?

When you ask her if she's still in an A, I think you need to expect either way. She may not give you the answer, b/c she's knows that if she tells you the A is over.....she won't be able to get you off her back to R.


I see your point. Her message is clear. The thing is, her dreams about her idealic life without me are not rooted in reality. She has no clue of the hardship we all will face as a result of HER decision. She needs to see that now. The bloom has to come off the rosebush.


Me 45 W 34 W.A.W.
3K. D11 S9 D6
M 12 y T 13 y
Bomb drop 02/22/2011
2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011
Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011