I know an A matters. I think it is probably harder for LBH's to deal with than most women. What I'm trying to tell Johnnie is that his wife is through with the M, regardless. He's using the affair as his platform when he plans to confront her with his big tough love announcement. I'm saying that if she is or if she isn't still having an A......she's done with him. He needs to have something other than her A, or he's going to be left standing in the dust.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
