J1, there are many vets on this board, far smarter than I...
It's all about what YOU can handle.
Me, I could NEVER allow my W to see another person and live with me. It's not in me. So the boundary I set was iron clad, and I was ready to follow through.
"So, if she's telling you she hasn't changed her feelings.....does it matter if she's continuing her A?"
You're Dam right it matters. At least to me.
As far as I'm concerned, she can 'do' her OM bare a$$ in the snow. But certainly not while my hard work supports her.
Those are not 'tough' words. It's truly how I feel...
J1, just keep in mind that each move you make WILL affect your life and M.
It's about YOU, your health and your life, not hers...
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
