She has told them the M is breaking apart...and they are VERY SUPPORTIVE! Her parents are not pressing her to stay with you! Now, she feels free, and better than that...she feel really good with her decision to leave you b/c now, she has her parent's support (which to her, means approval).l

She is telling you good-bye. She has been "nice" or happy acting lately b/c she doesn't plan to live with you any longer. She has plans for a future without you. Look at this!


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Nothing has changed for my feelings about you or us.....I guess people change and grow and we did not do that together.


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You know you are free to go and take the kids places or even go with your parents and sister to your family stuff..... its important to you and them.
When we get stuff organized we can tell the kids....I feel no need to worry them till we really have to.
Have a nice night with them!


That's your "Dear John" letter.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!