I don't think you will handle things as smoothe as that. Her email sounds like a woman who has no intention of staying with you or living in your house. If that's true, then are you going to fall apart, or will you pack her bags? It's easy to talk big on the board, but always be prepared for the unexpected.

Look at her email again. Remember when you pressed her about telling her parents? You were hoping that her parents would have a part in getting her to stay in the M. But look what happened instead:

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Just wanted to give you the heads up that I told my parents we're not great at all with us and that we will eventually split up. They are very supposritive just as yours probably are also with you which is great. Good to have a support system.


She has told them the M is breaking apart...and they are VERY SUPPORTIVE

Nothing has changed for my feelings about you or us.....I guess people change and grow and we did not do that together.
Hope we BOTH get jobs soon so we can move on and both be happy soon!
You know you are free to go and take the kids places or even go with your parents and sister to your family stuff..... its important to you and them.
When we get stuff organized we can tell the kids....I feel no need to worry them till we really have to.
Have a nice night with them!
PS I think you work tomorrow AM so i may go to gym early and then take all 3 to Ls tennis lessons in the AM!
L

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!