The only thing I would say at this point J1, is...
I don't know what value you expect to get from punishing your W.
It is your path.
If you are hoping the your W will respect you and come to her senses... ???
Think about the people you truly respect... how do they behave? Why do you respect them? How do you think they would behave in your sitch? And if you will respect yourself for what you are about to do... then by all means, do it...
