You know my sitch well enough, LP. I'll support you in what ever you choose. I'll send you luck, even though I think you don't need it.
There's fence sitting, confusion, and cake eating...
And then, there's a time when it's quite obvious the WAS is truly nesting with the OP... when the only conflict appears to be that they don't know which wedding gifts they should take and which you can have...
The way I see it, I am proud to have participated with a group of people who are determined to bring down the D rate from whatever (50%) rate it is to something more reasonable (< 20%).
It does appear to me that your know where you are going and it does not appear you are operating out of emotion (much at all) any more.
Do what you feel you need to, when you feel you need to.
