Right now she is taking advantage of me and the family. She is living in our house and living the social life of somone who does not have any respondsabilities or obligations. Until i hear differently from her, she is seeing him. She is not living in reality. Its time for that to stop, for everyones sake, Hers, Mine and the kids.
My plan for tomorrow morning is to:
AFFAIR: ask her outright if she is still seeing OM. as she has not discussed it with me since I discovered it 1 month ago.
If she says No, the affair is over, I am going to ask to see proof that it is. If she cant produce proof, then she will have to create an "Its over letter" for him and send it in front of me, or call him in front of me and end it. If she refuses to do that, It time for her to pack her bags and go.
If she says Yes. I will tell her that since she has decided to step outside our marriage, that is outside my boundries and it is time for her to leave, today.
If her affair is Over...
LIVING IN THE FAMILY HOME: I will ask her if she wants to continue living in the Family Home with me and the kids.
If she says yes, She will need to agree to Marriage Councelling and to curtail her soacial life to focus on our relationship.
If she says no, Then I will tell her that I will help her pack up some things and she can leave Today.
I also am going to aske her what has been stopping her from seeing a therapist to deal with her issues?
I am going to share some real statistics with her on how divorce affects children, Its time to set the record straight.
In short, it is time for me to take control and look out for me and the kids. Her lack of commitment to work on the marriage is also revealing in her blatent disregard for the welfare of the kids.
Its time to take her out of her Fantasy world and let her experience reality
Any suggestions?
Me 45 W 34 W.A.W. 3K. D11 S9 D6 M 12 y T 13 y Bomb drop 02/22/2011 2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011 Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011
