I truly don't think H wants a D. That is why he has waited. But, now he has forced my hand at it. I continually told him if he wanted a D then you file. Well, here I go going back on that. Also, this man has had space were NC over 6 weeks and NC with his children.
Even though he doens't want it-he won't fight it. HE is a victim in this whole thing. In his mind anyway!
It seems as I read many MLC'ers must have been able to sit down with spouse long enough to go over finances with out one of them filing. I suppose this is just an indication of how far in my H is.
