I read it 2Step, but F you man...I need to go to the Eye doctor again. THANKS!
Hey man, the contact escalates because you show indifference. Get a clue would ya. You move on, you become the WAS, you HAVE something she likes. She wants it, she WILL come get it. Everything is a test. EVERYTHING.
You don't need to show indifference with this one, what you need to show is you like you and if she really likes you liking you... Guess who will be back?
Answer her tests, but accept the fact that you can't change what she did. Let her come to you FULLY and then let her know what YOU will accept.