Just gonna throw this out there right now, 'cause someone's gonna say it...
You think you need to remind her, yet again... that you love her?
I'm just keeping with what seems to be a theme right now.
What's worked, what hasn't? This is NOT advice nor do I recommend this, but what do you think her reaction would be if you actually DID go out and find a local girl. But really, what if you didn't but she THOUGHT you did?
IOW, what can you do now, that would be a huge 180 that could stick and not be harmful? Something she might notice? Something that would benefit you and something that she is REALLY looking for, that will be hugely attractive to her?