You have already asked for what you want. She, in an a VERY evasive way, has answered.
She is cake eating and avoiding.
What you need to do now, is be(and act if you have to) A MAN who has a plan. DB101 - is if it isn't working, do something differently.
IMHO she knows YOU are waiting on her to make the move, but she really "Senses" you are still waiting on her to change HER mind.
THE ONLY way you can do this successfully is to really take the counter intuitive approach and validate her and make her reality come true. GIVE HER WHAT SHE WANTS. Pack up her things, help her pack, and "gently" push her out the door.
If she even thinks for a second that you are "hanging" on she will continue to be wishy washy and drag this out. BE A MAN who KNOWS you can't do this anymore. Don't be a jerk, but be cool, calm, and collected about this. Show her you don't NEED HER.As soon as you do this, you flip the script.
The more you email her, the more you make yourself look weak, the more you cater, and the more you wait.....HURTS YOUR CHANCES. J1...let her go and let her feel the pressure of her decision. As soon as you take this burden off you and put it on her, the better you will be in YOUR life.
Life is a brutal experience and you will NOT change her mind or coax her into thinking everything will be better until YOU show her YOU don't need her.
