For a while, she called me several times in one week. Then it was maybe once a week. Now, I haven't spoken to her in over a week, I think. Which is fine by me. I want her to really know what it's like without me around, just to make sure she's really thought things through about leaving me. Besides, I've got my own life to live. The sooner I can get to work on myself and learn to get through life without needing her, the better off we'll both be. OM will be moving to live with her by the middle of this month. I have no idea what to expect once that happens. We'll see. As much as it hurts to know that they'll be with each other, I feel that prolonged exposure to OM will help my W get a good feel on who she really wants to be with.


Us: mid-20s
T: 5.5 yrs
M: 2 yrs
S + OM: 6/21/11
Legally S'd: 9/9/11

In this life, you have a limited amount of mental currency. You get what you pay for, so spend it wisely.

So it goes. --Kurt Vonnegut