"I asked you over a month ago If you would end your A. You have been unable to tell me you have done so... "
I agree 100%
She needs to end it or face reality.
She can not face reality while having an A and staying in the M.
Far too comfortable. She needs to be uncomfortable to have second thoughts.
As it stands, she is no longer even lying to you J. She told you about the A. So any guilt she MAY have is diminished.
And heed CS words. No yelling, No anger, complete composure, and 100% confidence. That alone will make her question her decisions, create some reality, AND create immediate respect for you weather she admits it or not.
Good luck!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
