Thanks for the reply. He will be hateful. He has commented in the past that will be all about "revenge" for me. Nah, sorry buddy-I think thats what you did when you slept with OW! Its called responsibility as far as Im concerned.

I hate to do it but will. I think the mind frame he is in right now he will just roll over. No fighting for anything. I really didn't want it to get to this point.

The L made it sound like once I start the process I have to see it to end. Or delay it. But, I thought many D's get drug on forever and ever. He said if he didn't argue for anything it would be done fairly quickly.

I will have everything in order for my visit.