Yes she admitted to the affair. When I asked her to end it on the day I found out she said she had to think about things and has said nothing since that's been over a month now...
IMVHO "asking" will put you in a position of weakness. It gives the power to her and OM.
Look. If she had ended it. She would have said so. Don't you think it's something you'd tell your S?
She just said in her email "nothing has changed"
I'm on my phone so I can't go to into it but...
A start?
"I asked you over a month ago If you would end your A. You have been unable to tell me you have done so... "
No asking.
All fact.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
