"Based on her email I don't think you need to ask.
To say it another way. DON'T ASK."
And THIS is what I don't understand.... CS, please explain this to me...
Live while W has an A and don't set boundaries? Let her eat cake and act 'as if' while wifeypoo enjoys the best of both worlds?
This is NOT acceptable, even in DB...
An A once exposed MUST end, or the LBS MUST set boundaries, and act/react accordingly.
JMHO
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012