"My gut feeling is to confront her about her affair and find out if she has ended it. If she hasn't, I want to kick her out of the house and out of my life. Right now she is getting the best of all worlds and it is time for that to end. I will not be treated as a doormat any longer. I had hope until today. I can't take another heart crushing. It's time to do whats best for me. If she wants out, then that what she will get."


I couldn't agree more... Just make sure its more than a 'gut' feeling!

KNOW IT!!! Or don't do it...

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012