My feelings are changing...sitch isn't

[AntoniaB]

Oh Tad, you'll probably want to know if I responded to my XHs anniversary email. I did not. Later he told me that when he never heard back from me, he thought I "did something to hurt myself" (I'd never done anything like that before) and he contacted my sister to make sure I was "safe." She never told me this, but he told me, I guess to show me he wasn't heartless. But then a day later he took OW on vacation to one of our favorite places and posted pics on facebook. So clearly his compassion comes and goes by the day ;-)

Bottom line: protect your emotions as much as you can.