Congratulations. I myself am a very proud MIL, although my D and he are currently separated. He will always be a part of the family to me. I feel very blessed the my D's husbands all think kindly of me, even through disagreement and sometimes divorce. I can call them for help and they will come at a moment's notice.

As for the church bean counter, Everybody's got one. Somebody who has to know that all the numbers match up and the amounts balance. It's all they live for.