I know because she basically told me. She started out by saying that he was just a friend that she felt comfortable confiding in. He was a "third party" with no allegiance. But that was all a lie. Remember people who are in affairs lie. They can't help themselves. I think they even lie to themselves. It's the only way they can deal with the guilt.
As it stand now, he knows more about my sitch than I do and has spent significantly more time with my W than I have in the last 10 weeks.
She even had the nerve to tell me the first time I found out about the EA that she felt sorry for him because he had such a miserable marriage himself. WHAT!?!?!?!?!??!


Me:61
W:60
M: 26
No kids
ILYBININLWY AUG 10
S: 5/20/11
D filed 6/23/2011