I guess I am now an official member of the DB club

[Woodman]

That's right KD and what really hurts me more than any physical part of the infidelity is the idea that my wife has confided all of our fears, hurts, triumphs, and tragedies to another man who really could give a r@ts @ss about any of it. And I hold it sacred. She just couldn't bring herself to talk to me about "our" problems but could easily confide them to a total stranger. That hurts.

By the way, just got a call from my L's secretary. Wants me at his office at 0745 Monday morning prior to 0900 court. I got a feeling I'm going to find out at that time, how painful this is really going to be. Remember, whenever a lawyer tells you "it's no problem" , it is probably a problem and a big one to you. Maybe not so much to him. Kaching! as he cashes the check.