When she left, I planned and printed out a parental plan, but she refused to sign it. Instead, she basically came up with her own plan (you know, something to match her presumed right to take our son away from the familial home) and basically left little wiggle room for negotiation.
Based on hours alone (per week): W = 80 hrs. (It likely irrelevant, but most of it comes from overnight sleep time) M = 49 hrs. (much of it from awake time) Daycare = 39 hrs.
I can't recall if daycare is factored into parental time, e.g. even if W drops son off at daycare at 8am, and son is there till 3pm, the time is still in favor of W.
I provide dinner for our son Monday-Saturday and breakfast/lunch on Sunday, while my wife only provides breakfast/lunch on Saturday, and dinner on Sunday.
Yes, I'm aware the hours are skewed, so I will try to ask for an extra day where our son spends the night with me; this will help balance out the number quite a bit. The reason things have been set up the way it is currently is because (according to my wife): she will be out of town a lot for hospital interviews for the rest of 2011 and beginning 2012, so our son will be spending a lot of time with me.
Originally Posted By: LITB
Also, when your W removed your S from your home, what else took place besides the 911 call and your postings here?
A lot of people (family/friends) close to us knew what was going on; I called them the moment it happened.