Thanks, guys. It's his first sleepover at H's house tonight, so we'll see how that goes.
I've been continuing to talk with OWH, although not about their relationship - we've decided that's off-limits, but we are talking about ways to help the kids cope (their oldest D is near my S7 age), and I've recommended some books.
It just makes me so mad that people care so little for their children - so much for their own egos.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11