Yesterday my wife invited me to go to the furniture store with her to look at a bedroom set that she is thinking of buying since I'm getting the old set after the divorce.
After work I headed over to the house and had dinner with the family. I sure miss sitting down at the dinner table with the whole family and talking with the kids and the W.
Afterwards we headed to the store. Sometimes I can be my own worse enemy. I was depressed being in the house and knowing we will be selling it on the 19th of this month. So many good memories. I was also depressed thinking about how many evenings that I have missed eating dinner as a family.
This was bothering the stbxw. The kids stayed home, so we began speaking about our R.
Why do I do what I know I should not. First mistake, I should have been happy at the moment being with my family for dinner, not thinking about the past. Second, no R talk, just enjoy eachothers company.
As stated earlier, she is still very upset about the FB thing. She stated that she was just beginning to trust me again and then Monday night happened. Ouch! I validated what she was saying, apologized, and said that I am working on myself. At this point of the conversation I was a lot more upbeat and acting a little roguish. Luckily, I was able to make her laugh, even though she is still upset. I finally stated let's no longer talk about this subject and just enjoy the evening. The rest of the evening went smoothly.
My stbxw needed a cashiers check for her new apartment that she will be moving into next week. She is borrowing money from me until the house sells. She showed up at my office with the daughter then we went to pick up the check.
Afterwards she invited me to lunch. I agreed. We went to our favorite Mexican restaurant. No R talk, I was upbeat, and we had a good time just talking about nothing. I paid the bill, she dropped me off at work, and that was that. A success in my opinion.
Excited about the weekend. I have my kids again. I am thinking about taking them to see Captain America. I'm excited just to be with them.
Bits M:35, W:39, M:12 S1:10, S2:8, D:5 Bomb: 3/25/11 "I am not in love with you anymore." Moved Out: 5/19/11 Divorce: 08/08/11
