thanks for the responses......

brooklyn and denver, i do know what is driving this

he is looking at me as a nanny of sorts, so i can take care of our s while he can do what he wants

but in my heart, i do want to go

it will be a nice memory for our child to see his dads band play there and it will be all the more special for him if i am there too

and putting that aside, if i am not expecting anything it will be a nice vacation for me

i do agree with fig.....i'll go on his dime and have a great time with my son

and there will be no expectations of a family vacation

i know that this is not what it is

but it might be for my child

and that means the world to me

if things progress the way they are now, there will be plenty of separate vacations

yes brooklyn, light, happy, and no pressure at all

xo

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